I picked up Gillian from school yesterday. She came running to me and said “Dorlisa give us all kissies!” I started to say “That’s nice”, but I was interrupted by her teacher. She said “Hersey kisses. Dorlisa gave everyone a Hersey kiss.” Gillian and I said goodby to her friends and went to her cubby. I said “I put your kids in your backpack. You can have it for dessert.” She said “I want it now!” I repeated, “You can have it for dessert.” We got her sweatshirt on and walked outside. Again she said “But I want it now.” I said “I know. But you can’t have it now. You can have it for dessert.” She fell to her needs and sat on the sidewalk. I had to carry her to the car. The whole time she was saying “But I want my kissie!” She was screaming by the time we got to the car. I buckled her in and said “Because of this tantrum, you lose Clover tonight.” Well this didn’t make things better. She screamed the entire car trip home.