When John and I got home tonight, Daddy was working outside cleaning up some leaves. It was a warm night so Daddy was working without a shirt. The kids were playing quietly in the living room while I was making dinner. John offered to help me, but I didn’t have anything he could help with. So he said “I’m going outside to help Daddy!” I said “Okay, just make sure you put on shoes.” He said “Ok. And I’m taking off my shirt too!” I kept working on dinner. And suddenly Gillian was next to me. “Are these the right feet?” she asked as she looked down at her shoes. I told her yes. And she said “I’m going to help Daddy too. But I not going to take off my shirt. Cause girls don’t do that!”